The most clear sings he wants to marry you someday
Are you looking for clear signs he wants to marry you someday?
Somehow women nowadays get scared to find out directly if the man they spend the nights with, is serious enough to be a husband one day. Not today. Not even this year. Someday.
So this article is for you, girls. For those of you who love the person, you’re with and want to know if he feels the same. Even nowadays, more than 80% of women want to get married and have a stable family. And that’s not only normal but magical as well.
1. The first one of the signs he wants to marry you someday – He Cares About You
He cares about you. That’s it. He checks your tires before a long trip or just before the winter season comes – that’s care. He asks you how your day was every single day? That’s care. He makes you aware he’s around if you need something and he proves it every time.
If a man shows he cares that is a sign he is committed to you and probably considers you as a future wife. In a casual relationship, you will never see that.
2. You met his family
That’s a huge sign as well. If he sees you as a woman who takes him away from the boring reality, you will never reach his closest people. It’s not only because they’re too special for him but because they’ll ask him about you long after you two break up.
But if he considers as you are staying in his life for longer and why not for life, he will introduce you to his family. Going as a couple to a family event is almost the same as going as a family. So if you’ve met his parents, aunts and uncles, congratulations – he thinks you have future together.
3. He talks about having a family – now tell me that’s not a clear sign he wants you to be his wife
That’s the easiest one. Not every man does it, especially if he’s not sure about having a serious, committed relationship with the woman next to him.
If your loved one doesn’t feel shy to talk about having a family one day, then in his mind, half of the work is done. He’s found the person to create it with. He may be just checking if you’re on the same page as him. A man that doesn’t have you as his wife on his mind would never risk giving you false hopes in that direction. He would just play it dumb, and that’s it.
4. He talks about future
Slightly different than talking about his plans for the workplace, talking about your future is a key to finding out if he wants to marry you someday. If it’s the middle of May and he’s asking you about making Christmas plans, then he doesn’t have any doubts you’ll be together by that time.
I had a boyfriend I thought was a potential partner for life. But when I wanted to book flight tickets for a holiday that was four months later, he told me not to include him because he didn’t know if everything will be alright with his job. Only one month later he broke up with me. Back then, I didn’t doubt his answer even for a second, but after that I realised it. I was not in his plans, or he was not sure if we’ll be together by that time.
5. So… are you planning a holiday together?
As I gave my example above – planning things ahead is essential for a serious relationship. A holiday is the best opportunity to see if, in your loved one’s head, your relationship may grow into something more significant.
For example, if you want to go to Italy for your holiday, but he wants to visit Spain, the sentence – Ok, this year Italy and next one – Spain, will give you the best confirmation. You’ve got the future planned. Together!
6. You feel you’re his priority
When you want to have a family with someone, he becomes your priority. You care about their plans, feelings and wellbeing. Do you feel you’re your loved one’s priority? Is he your priority as well? If he makes you feel vital for him, that is because he wants you to an essential part of his life. That is a perfect sign that he wants to marry you one day.
7. He asks for your opinion
When your opinion is crucial for the other person, it is a sign he wants you in his life. For example, he needs to know you’re alright with his choices for furniture because he sees you living with him one day. If you know you want to spend your life with someone, his opinion should be important to you.
8. You live together
Living together with your partner is almost the same as being married to him. It is the best practice ever before the wedding. It all depends on the reasons to live together, though.
If he purposed you to come to live in his place because it’s financially better for both of you and anyway you love each other, I have a surprise for you – he’s not so sure if he will marry you. The only reason to live together should be because you feel the need to take that step. You love each other and feel you need the other presence all the time in your life. In that case – congratulations, he wants to marry you!
Do you know more signs if he wants to marry you someday? What were the signs your partner gave you before his proposal? Share with us.